The Style Bible - Change Your Future
Happiness and positivity is something I always chat about with my clients and one thing that always comes up is making changes to your life, the way you see yourself and how you can feel great everyday. To change your future you have to change your mindset. If this doesn’t alter there’s no way of saying goodbye to inevitable consequences of tomorrow. This is something we can put in place for almost every area in our lives.
I have no room for negativity or frustrating thoughts and this is an area I want to chat about more going forward. Everyday I see ladies with self doubt at the forefront of their mindset. I love to help others feel invincible, beautiful and most importantly able to put themselves first.
We all have days when we are low, lost and feeling down. It could be the weather creating a cloud over your spirits or it could be something that’s deeper thats troubling us. When we where children is was far easier to have a carefree mindset as we didn’t need to worry about life or troubles.
As we grow older we adopt little insecurities that needn't surface. My job enables me to empower women on so may levels. From beauty to photography, but it does take that person to want to to change in the first place. When they do, its then and only then when the fun can begin!
If you are in need of change try and look at the problem or the situation from a positive place. Understand it’s either a lesson or a challenge. If change is still required take action as soon as you can. Life’s too short to waste time with negativity and procrastination. but the change must come from yourself and no one else.
To change your future properly you must alter your own decisions today. It’s that simple but changing your decisions might sound easy in the present tense but actually acting on it takes real guts. It’s essentially the unknown, and that can be scary.
Change the way you see things by fuelling your enthusiasm for your future self. Visualise that person right next to you and smile. Take yourself to a place of beauty, serenity and happiness. Learn to dream bigger believing that you can master whatever comes your way. Take a day off walk in the sunshine, walk in the rain if you have to or sit in a field of daffodils and just relax.
Mastering your positivity is the key. Nothing can stop a woman with the right attitude from achieving her goals. But nothing can help a girl with the wrong mental attitude. It’s up to you to change your future and no one else.
Small changes are the way to start and even if its a new dress, a different hair style, a beauty treat like having your nails done or summoning up the courage and call me for a set of pictures. Take the plunge and do it as you never know what might happen to your mindset after you do.
Positivity and a good mental attitude towards yourself is the only way you and others around you can feel truly happy. Once you're happy every area of your life will benefit long term.
My outfit: Sass & Edge maxi dress and shoes, Valentino tote bag, Rayban sunglasses & Lush hair extensions.